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been doing some thinking
Jan. 19th, 2004 09:20 pmI normally have a general rule regarding guys: I don't do the "friends with benefits" thing. But let me tell you something...holding out until I get a steady boyfriend until the next time I get any is pretty damn frustrating. I'm thinking of revoking my "no friends with benefits" rule.
However, if I do so and decide to get down with any random guy friend (and I really don't want to be considered a whore), I have the problem of deeper emotions being aroused. Like, what if I feel nothing after it but HE does? Or vice versa? How do you deal with that?
Eh, I've gotten a little more proactive about men this year so far, actually. I just get really frustrated when people like Mike ask "How's the love life?" It's just really frustrating. I don't know if he asks just to get a response to tattle back to Dan or whatever. Next time, I should just fuckin' exaggerate. *ha ha*
I confused Elyse on Friday night. *ha ha* "I have a boyfriend?! That's news to me! Who?!" (acts like a dumb blonde) I say, if it's that obvious.....erm, I don't know what to think.
However, if I do so and decide to get down with any random guy friend (and I really don't want to be considered a whore), I have the problem of deeper emotions being aroused. Like, what if I feel nothing after it but HE does? Or vice versa? How do you deal with that?
Eh, I've gotten a little more proactive about men this year so far, actually. I just get really frustrated when people like Mike ask "How's the love life?" It's just really frustrating. I don't know if he asks just to get a response to tattle back to Dan or whatever. Next time, I should just fuckin' exaggerate. *ha ha*
I confused Elyse on Friday night. *ha ha* "I have a boyfriend?! That's news to me! Who?!" (acts like a dumb blonde) I say, if it's that obvious.....erm, I don't know what to think.
